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10.24.2013

transparency and everlane




it's been a long time since i last posted about ecoluxury. i'm still in the process of organizing the content of this blog, now that so many things have changed and i've spent so much time away from it. this post is rambling, personal, and impersonal (just so you know:). i'm working on spreading that balance out in the blog, making it interesting, beautiful, helpful, and personal, as much as possible. in grad school i worked on a thesis about the need for transparency in apparel manufacturing. i wanted to research the heck out of the possibilities allowing for american companies to revolutionize their methods of production as well as their relationship to their customers. i also wanted to lay out a plan, however small, for start-ups who wanted transparency to be not only available to their consumers but who wanted to use it as a serious marketing tool. i had a lot of clothing and i was concerned about that. transparency was a simple concept but not utilized and i was concerned about that too. i love design, i love innovation, and i'm very interested in changing everything about the way we consume what we do.

back in my last life, my ex husband and i converted our second bedroom to a closet to hold all our clothing. maybe that's not so weird for many people, but it was for me. i grew up wearing the same shirt for ten years and suddenly i had a hundred shirts and the power to buy just about any shirt i wanted at any time. i had a tee shirt from everyone. i was always involved in considered purchases of sustainable brands but i veered this way and that at times, depending on my emotional climate and on the design. personal stuff warning ****i'm in a strange position at this time because i have built such a strong skill set of fashion knowledge, sustainability knowledge, writing skills, customer service skills, and on and on, yet i don't have the kind of experience that can be easily read on a resume or on a linkedin profile. each day i keep taking actions to pursue working with some amazing people where i can both be learning and contributing. i don't know how to do this other than to keep trying and to not give up. to locate amazing start-ups and ask if i can help. one of the ways i won't give up is by continuing to speak on how we can better live with the necessary items in our lives, feeling that our lives are lives of luxury, even if our bank statements do not put us in the 1% with 40%. beautiful design, plus gratitude, plus active optimism, plus health, plus love. easy, huh?****ok you're safe again!

this practice of transparency is something very dear to me and i see it as the way to change a broken manufacturing system into a new and excellent paradigm of true costs to benefits. it can be so easy to not look at something we'd rather not see, so what will make us look? what will create the awareness within us that we need total no bs manufacturing transparency? it is here and is very real. it is called excellent design. excellent design is the trump card for attention getting and when it's evident, eyes and wallets will follow. imagine if you gathered ten tee shirts to try on, not knowing the brand or the cost, wore them about a bit, and then picked your favorite. it's very likely to be everlane.

so there i was with all these tees, for all these years, and i'd seen everything. every cut, every fabric. the differences in quality were huge and it did not, of course, range logically in quality based on price. not at all. i had tees from lna, alex wang, the row, vince, velvet, ella moss, james perse, three dots, kain label, free people, marc by marc, american apparel, splendid, rogan, loomstate, edun, c&c california, joie, ann demeulemeester, and on and on. i first heard of everlane a few months before their ecommerce site launched in november 2011. a year or so later i found myself in the position to purchase some replacements for the things i had purged after my divorce, which was everything. i ordered a few tees, tried them on, and that was that. i've been washing those tees for the last year and they have held up beautifully. a new line of cashmere sweaters has just been released, all $120. i have experience with quality cashmere (my ancient pringle of scotland cardigan can attest to this!), and normally i buy cashmere from inhabit or vince so needless to say i buy only one a year or so. with everlane, i think i'll get two, and i know the quality alone will make it more than worth the cost, which thanks to transparency is a true cost and not an overinflated retail mark up.

everlane did not sponsor this post as i have no sponsors, this is just a well researched opinion. check out what they have to say on radical transparency in the retail apparel marketplace here and then order a ryan tee or a silk blouse and see for yourself what a little start-up can do with a new set of rules and brilliant design.

10.22.2013

belonging

 galilee, ri


 concord, ma



sandhill cove, ri


 galilee, ri


little compton, ri




7.16.2013

bet your bottom dollar

                  divine little place where i shower


when i was a little kid, i wanted to be an orphan. i romanticized the holy heck out of the secret garden, the little princess, my side of the mountain, and especially my beloved annie. as an eight-year-old, i once entertained myself and my bemused aunt and uncle on a visit to family in aspen by smearing mud on my face and begging the people getting off the shuttle at the apartment complex for 'spay-uh change'. both my (early) love of adventure (escapism) and my perception that orphans actually ended up with much more love-filled and magic lives than regular kids with (albeit divided) houses and regular meals, made for a weird love of the genre. the deep desire to be rescued by magic circumstance and secret (male) benefactor guided my life all the way up to right now. thank goodness that life has given me such a hellish set of trials that have forced me to take great leaps out of that way of waiting. the rescue is being so heart rendering completely here now, through all circumstances, battling and accepting with love, acting on things before i can talk myself out of action. nothing i think is remotely right. what is happening is completely right. there is a huge difference sometimes between the two, sometime none at all so that i slip into a state of unreasonable sweetness just to be feeling the air move into and fill my body through no effort of my own. how amazing is that? we never have to try to breathe, either we are breathed or we are not. i'm not an orphan. i have two living parents. and there is magic and it's better than circumstantial magic because it's inherent and always available when letting go of the story.

                         mangos

7.08.2013

happy new moon


this was my walk yesterday, watching the fog roll down the mountain until i realized it wasn't fog, it was a cloud full of rain. i walked home slowly, soaking wet with my face to the sky. 

last week was a big week, here's what i learned:

1) emotional wisdom trumps intellectual wisdom. period. the emotions know, the body knows. the mind, well, it thinks it knows and if it doesn't know then it has to figure it all out and six thousand different issues and problems arise at once and one can sit forever at the kitchen table paralyzed. what is felt may not be what is wanted by the mind. go there and dance there in terror and in freedom until only freedom remains.
2) it is really not easy to follow the heart. it sounds simple and it is but it isn't easy. it's a true discipline and badass warriors of light didn't get there by not leaping into the heart's unknown deep.
3) it sucks to lose a key and have to pay to rekey a whole house.
4) i don't care about most things i cared about before i came to stay on this island. i was totally misinformed as to who i was and what i wanted. 
5) leap into and towards what scares you in action as well as intention. scared to try something, talk to someone, BE someone? do it right now.
6) the results of anything you do can't be predicted. do not try. the greatest gifts come from being with and seeing the present moment. they can be totally missed when you don't accept them because they don't look like you think they should. 
7) chocolate and peanut butter are still a perfect thing. 
8) don't hide. you know what i mean. 


7.01.2013

real luxury


i've been packing and organizing this past week and this weekend i discovered that it was more important to me than anything to not bring certain things with me to where i'm going next. 


i can live without many things, nearly everything, but i can no longer live with what isn't true. the voice that i have become so used to over these decades, the one telling me i'm not capable or worthy or talented or beautiful, is a voice that i'm no longer able to believe. it is the greatest luxury in the world to no longer have to listen. i don't know what the path looks like but i realize it's made of a million tiny decisions to live as one who is worthy and strong and kind and loyal and brave and talented and wonderful. these truths are based on nothing. they are not because of what i do or how successful i am according to any standards but my own. they can't be because of anything transient for if i lost a measure of my own success then it wasn't really mine to begin with. to actually embody this has taken incredible will and some pretty fierce solitude and i am amazed and honored by my own strength and power. i am an amazing human being and the proof of this is in the fact that i am here at all. 


the opportunity to say out loud who we really are is here. to surround ourselves with friends and loves who support our truth is not easy but it can make the difference between a life lived in misery because we are reaffirming untrue beliefs about ourselves or a life lived in the total joy of being so deeply in love with our own existence that the love we are filled with brims over and spills everywhere, touching everyone we touch, feeding the earth, and encouraging its own expansion. i wish that for me and for you.